Soul Seek with Akshaya Chinapa

#3 Your WHY

May 02, 2022 Akshaya Chinapa Season 1 Episode 3
Soul Seek with Akshaya Chinapa
#3 Your WHY
Show Notes Transcript

Why do you want your dream? What is it about your dream that lights you up? In this episode, I talk about your WHY and your purpose. Let's dive in!

Episode Highlights:

  • What makes the world a better place for me.
  • My WHY and my purpose as a coach.
  • Outdated generational messaging and creating healed messages to pass on.
  • Stepping into your purpose and creating a ripple effect.
  • Questions to help you find your WHY.

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Episode 3 - Your WHY

Hey, you're listening to Soul Seek with me Akshaya. In this space you have permission to dream to train, to learn to grow, and to break free. Welcome home my loves.

Welcome back to soul seek with your host Akshaya. How are you my love's? 

Today I want to talk to you about a really important concept to connect with. And that's your Why. Why do you want to make your dreams come true? Why do you live the life you live? Right? Why this job? Why a family? Why this house? Why this car? Why this business? Why this purpose? 

We all want to make the world a better place. Well, most of us anyways. But what is it for you that makes you want to make the world a better place. For me, it's access, access to better education, better health care, better mental health services, access to a space to fully be and express your most authentic self. And this is why I coach so I can help others drop the generational and societal messaging that gets in their way and negatively impacts their overall wellness. 

My purpose is to help others heal while connecting to their souls purpose, and making their dreams a reality. I believe that when we live in our purpose, the world can fulfill her purpose. Right, we create this ripple effect through connection. And even though we are in our own little bubbles in our worlds in our communities, when we do our work, we make it possible for others to do their work. When we follow our purpose, we make it possible for others to follow their purpose, why? 

Once we begin to accept ourselves, our authentic nature, our trains, our voice, our courage, our resilience, our love, we begin to see that and others as well. Right, it's the same the other way around when we feel unfulfilled when we are incapable of giving ourselves love and compassion and space and opportunities to go after our desires, then we create the same limitations for others. Right and this is this has been passed down in many ways through societal and generational messaging. 

And don't get me wrong. Many of these messages were created in a time when they served a purpose for that time. What happens now is a lot of these messages are out dated and worn down. And they are limiting. They keep us shackled. And they pull us out of our purpose. Right Like where did this idea come from? That women had to stay home and raise the child or children while men went out and worked and earned the living right to sustain the family. At some point in history, it probably made sense right at some point. Human nature evolved right like the stronger of the sexes went out to hunt to gather why While the emotionally stronger, stayed home, to nurture, and love, and support the next generation.

And that that trend continued as communities evolved, as you know. Villages grew into towns into cities, right into these larger spaces. And there were, there were so many more opportunities for women to step out of this traditional role of being just the caretaker. But they were limited with this message, right? Oh, this is your role as a woman, your role is to have children, to nurture them to make sure that nothing goes wrong, you know, with their health with their well being with their schooling. Like, there are many cultures where if a child does badly at school, the mother is often blamed. Right? You didn't do your job of educating your child or making sure they did their homework.

So as society evolved, the messaging remained. And now we were beginning to see how these outdated messages constrict. Right? Not just women, but men. Transgender, right. However, you identify yourself, again, there's has been so much evolution in our humanity. But still, there's so much resistance to evolving the messaging that we receive, as we grow up.

So this is pretty much the reason why it's really, really important for each one of us to step into our purpose to heal from these damaging messages to create new, healthy, helpful messages that will help the next generation and this current generation, everyone who lives right now, right, has the opportunity to heal. 

You're never too old, you're never too young. To begin, you're either stuck, or you're ready. And you have to decide which one you're going to choose. And yes, it is a choice. And when you decide to become unstuck, to heal, to begin your journey, having your why is like having roots that grow deep into the earth and keep you stable and strong and rooted in your purpose. Right. 

If you have a dream of making sure that children in third world countries have access to clean water every day. Why? Right, get really clear on your why. One -w How is it going to help those children? And this is pretty straightforward. How is it going to help the community? How is it going to help you and your community? Right? Will there be a level of awareness that's created here where you are now so that more people can get involved in this beautiful journey of ensuring that children can have access to clean water? Right. Whether you want to begin a soul aligned business, right say you're moving out of selling product and you want to do something deeper and maybe you want to coach business owners to start business just to start? Because there's so much need here, right? If you don't go to business school, and I'm telling you, many business owners have not been to business school. Right? So there is a need in helping them navigate just the beginning. Right? What to look at? And again, if this is your passion, if this is what lights you up, why do you want to do this work? Why support first time new business owners?

What will it do for you? What will it do for them? What will it do for the community? What kind of ripple effect will that have? In the community? In the world?

Right, if you want to teach yoga, why? What kind of ripple effect will that have in the community? Because we don't teach or do just for ourselves? We do, we teach we serve, we run businesses for a greater purpose, to maybe make life easier to maybe have better access to mental health services, to maybe have better access for women. Health care access for women in small villages where they have to drive miles to get to a doctor. Right? So get clear on your why. 

As you heal, as you become clearer in your purpose, you have the opportunity to pass down this healed messaging, right, you get to rewrite the messages that you're going to pass out not just to your children, but within your community, to your siblings to your friends, right. Others are going to watch you see you and they're going to be inspired and they're going to begin to question how they have limited themselves in their lives. And then they might ask you for help say how did you do that? Right then they'll begin their journeys and this is the ripple effect. Imagine just you taking that courageous first step might pave the way for 10 other people in your community to take their courageous first steps and that 10 turns 200 and 1000 and it just keeps growing from there.

It amplifies. So what is your next best step? Right where do you feel called in your purpose? And why? Allow yourself to get clear on your Why allow those roots to grow deep and stable and connect you to the Earth from where you can rise up in your true authentic nature and serve the world. 

This is for you my love's this is possible. And I can't wait to hear your why, your purpose. Feel free to leave me a comment, to email me. I'd love to hear where you are on your journey. Have a beautiful day my loves. 

If you're looking for one on one support in finding your vision and your purpose, if you're ready to discover how generational and societal messaging gets in your way, and if you want to learn how to prioritize your needs, your goals and your dreams, so you can live a purposeful life that you love, then my one on one coaching is for you To sign up for a discovery call at or just find the link below at the end of the episode. Have a beautiful day my loves you deserve to live a life you love